Showing posts with label Haven-Making. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Haven-Making. Show all posts

Monday, June 9, 2014

Homecoming Gift

Thunk! The movers slam shut the door of their oversized truck. They clamber into the cab just as the engine roars to life. Then they're gone. I look around the garage filled with boxes and furniture; a labyrinth of cardboard snakes past me into the house and through each room. The dust has settled on the delivery of our possessions, but there is plenty of work to be done.

I wander through the kitchen, peering at my scribbled writing atop the boxes covering the countertops. Amidst the haphazard pile, I spy boxes marked "master bedroom", "basement", "shed". So much for order, I sigh. Scooping up a box, I navigate upstairs, avoiding a filing cabinet and a plastic bag stuffed with pillows. From my bedroom, I look down at the grass and the deck, wondering how long until I can enjoy that lovely sanctuary without too many should's and could's and would's hanging over me.

My two big kids are in their rooms, anxious to unpack treasures, many of which have been secreted away for nearly a year. Aaron pokes his head out his door and grins, "It made it!" He holds up the body of his Lego AT-AT. "I still have to put his legs back on, but it made the trip." Already Aaron has settled into his space, happily overturning boxes as he searches for joints and feet for his creation. As he turns back, I hear Norah hollering from downstairs.

"Mo-om!"

I look at her over the railing of the loft. She smiles at me and asks, "Can I organize my desk? I don't have all of my boxes yet, but I have some of them." I nod and she skips off to her room in the basement she has claimed, displaying her medals and trophies in prominent places and setting out her books in order of size.

I head to the kitchen, standing in the middle of the room and trying to envision the most sensible places for our pots, pans and dishes. What will be most used? What set up will be most efficient? How many times will I rearrange the cupboards until I get it right? Five boxes later, I head to the garage in search of a package labeled, "Mugs". I find it nestled between a box of books and a plastic bin of Christmas decorations.

Overwhelmed with the sheer scope of making this new house our home, I turn my back on the jumbled mess and head to the front yard, taking a deep breath and soaking up a few rays of sunshine. I explore the flower bed: Queen Anne's Lace, Columbine, Iris and...what's that? To the south of the house a vine climbs a trellis propped against the front porch. It was only green leaves and buds yesterday when we stopped by the new house, but now purple blooms have erupted, cascading into the plants below.  Clematis.

With this little homecoming gift from God, I know that we, too, will bloom in this new house we call home.

A little snapshot of our
 homecoming gift.


Image courtesy of Unsplash.
Why should I be unhappy? Every parcel of my being is in full bloom.
― Rumi


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Five-hundred-ish words inspired by the picture of pink blooms and quote above. We've made huge strides toward unpacking and in the blink of an eye, it's like we've always been here. 




Sunday, December 11, 2011

I'll Be Home for Christmas

The number one question of the past week has been, "Where will you be for Christmas?"

And my happy response has been, "Home."

I'll be home for Christmas.

Here in our cozy house, snuggled on our couch Christmas morning with family sitting around our twinkling tree, unwrapping gifts all together.  I'm just a little excited.

Which leads me to today's Musical Count-Down to Christmas, a song that embodies that beautiful dream to be home and surrounded by our loved ones.

I'll Be Home for Christmas


I'll be home for Christmas
You can plan on me
Please have snow and mistletoe
And presents on the tree

Christmas Eve will find me
Where the lovelight gleams
I'll be home for Christmas
If only in my dreams
From : http://www.elyrics.net/read/b/bing-crosby-lyrics/i_ll-be-home-for-christmas-lyrics.html


This song is almost always sung with a smidgen of nostalgia, remembering Christmases past with tenderness.  In just a few verses, it expresses our heart's desire to have a home to go home to.  I want my kids to look back on the Christmases of their childhood with the same fondness and warmth ... and then come home for the Holidays.  Come home to a home that is welcoming and sheltering.


Allow me a little rabbit trail today ...


Last Thursday, I had the head-holding joy to help build a half dozen gingerbread houses.  Correction:  three houses, two shanties and a floor with frosting, candies and sprinkles filling up to an imaginary attic.  It was fun and frustrating and creative and candy-strewn with kids who were sugar-covered and sugared-up.  I have pictures to share ...


My Happy Little Builders

But first you have to visit here.  Go and enjoy, I'll wait here.  (whistling, drumming fingers...)


Can you believe it?!?  What creativity and skill!  What incredible works of art!


Yeah ... that is not what we did.  We were a little more, uhm, hmm ... challenged.


As we built our little cottages with our graham crackers and dry-hard-like-concrete-Royal-Icing, there were a lot, "Oh no's" and "Aah! Help's" and "I can't do it's".  There is definitely a skill involved in building a gingerbread house with the proper structural integrity to withstand the several pounds worth of gumdrops, Rolo's and SweetTarts.  There is also a level of patience involved that my little builders were lacking.  Before the frosting had a chance to stick, they were designing chimneys and laying out their roofing material.


Here's Ashely's bungalow before the earthquake.

Aaron chose an adobe-styled house,
complete with snowballs.

Norah was very excited about her chimney.
It was not structurally sound.

Lydia's box home ... she snitched most of her roof.

Poor Ashley had two walls that refused to stay upright.  I would apply additional icing, she would hold it still for 3.7 seconds and then go right back to adding the sugary odds and ends that in the end, sabotaged her home.  There were a lot tears as I attempted to salvage the candied mess.  In the end, we propped up her roof and concealed the wreckage behind, you guessed it, more candy.


Post earthquake ... hence the thumb.

Lydia repeatedly assured me that her flat creation was, "Okay, Mom.  It not fall down."  Which just sent Ashley into a new flurry of tears.




As I did my very best to shore up wiggly walls and reinforce wobbly roofs, I thought about the first part of Psalm 127, "1Unless the LORD builds the house, the builders labor in vain." Here in my sticky hands was a perfect example of the importance of having a firm and solid foundation before building a gingerbread house ... or a real house, as well.  (For a few more good verses about Jesus as our foundation, check out Psalm 118:22-24 and 1 Peter 2:4-7.)


I am grateful that we have built our home with Jesus as our Cornerstone.  As we trust God to build our home, we can trust Him to make this a haven for our family.  And our friends, too.


Now, let's go back to the song today ...


It's wonderful to have a home filled with Christmas decorations:  twinkling lights, snowy scenes, mistletoe and a generous array of packages and gifts under the tree.  But it's even more wonderful to have a home filled with the Love Light of Jesus.  That's not a dream, however, but a reality, when we let the Lord Jesus build our homes.


That's my prayer for you today ... wherever you are going for Christmas, may you find Jesus there. And people who love you, too.